What is a forward heart and what does the Bible say about it?
“ For the froward is abomination to the Lord: but his secret is with the righteous.” Proverbs 3:32
“They that are of a froward heart are abomination to the Lord: but such as are upright in their way are his delight.” Proverbs 11:20
Having a forward heart is something that the Lord hates. The Scriptures repeat this. So it is important to study what a forward heart is.
Webster’s English dictionary tells us the following:
“FRO’WARD, adjective [Latin versus:turned or looking from.]
Perverse, that is, turning from, with aversion or reluctance; not willing to yield or comply with what is required; unyielding; ungovernable; refractory; disobedient; peevish; as a froward child.” (Webster’s 1828 Dictionary).
The Online Etymological Dictionary also gives us this information:
“froward (adv.)12c., froward, fraward “turned against, perverse, disobedient; peevish, petulant; adverse, difficult,” as a preposition, “away from,” the Northern form of Old English fromweard (see fromward), with Old Norse fra (see fro) in place of English from. Opposite of toward, it renders Latin pervertus in early translations of the Psalms, and also meant “about to depart, departing,” and “doomed to die.” Related: Frowardly; frowardness.” (Etymology Online).
So a forward heart is a heart that is rebellious, that doesn’t wish to “yield” or “comply”
The word “yield” comes from the old Anglian word “geldan “ and as a verb has the meaning of paying someone what they are due or requiting someone. It also includes the specific meaning of rendering worship (Yield, Etymology Online).
So a froward heart is a heart that does not want to give God the glory and honor he deserves.
“Give unto the Lord the glory due unto his name: bring an offering, and come before him: worship the Lord in the beauty of holiness. Fear before him, all the earth . . .“ I Chron. 16.29-30
A froward heart also does not wish to comply. “Comply (v.) early 14c., “to carry out, fulfill” (transitive), . . .”to consent, act in accordance with another’s will or desire. . .” (Etymology Online).
A forward heart does not wish to obey the commandments of God. A forward heart is rebellious.
“Because that, when they knew God, they glorified him not as God . . .” Romans 1:21
A forward heart is a heart that is “peevish” and “petulant”.
“PEE’VISH, adjective
- Fretful; petulant; apt to mutter and complain; easily vexed or fretted; querulous; hard to please.
She is peevish sullen, froward.
- Expressing discontent and fretfulness. . .” (Peevish, Webster’s 1828 Dictionary).
A forward heart complains. “Because that, when they knew God, they glorified him not as God, neither were thankful . . .”
The Scriptures seem to indicate that forwardness leads into other things.
It leads into idolatry.
The verse in Romans picks up, “ . . . neither were thankful; but became vain in their imaginations, and their foolish heart was darkened. Professing themselves to be wise, they became fools,And changed the glory of the uncorruptible God into an image made like to corruptible man, and to birds, and fourfooted beasts, and creeping things.” Romans 1:21-23
The Lord said of Israel in Deuteronomy “I will hide my face from them, I will see what their end shall be: for they are a very froward generation, children in whom is no faith. They have moved me to jealousy with that which is not God; they have provoked me to anger with their vanities. . .” Deuteronomy 32:20-21
We have seen that a forward heart is a stubborn and rebellious heart. And what does the Lord say of rebellion?
“ For rebellion is as the sin of witchcraft, and stubbornness is as iniquity and idolatry. Because thou hast rejected the word of the Lord, he hath also rejected thee from being king.” I Samuel 15:23
Having a forward heart is having a perverse heart (Webster; Etymology Online).
The Online Etymological Dictionary’s entry for” perverse” reads: “mid-14c., “wicked,” from Old French pervers “unnatural, degenerate; perverse, contrary” (12c.) and directly from Latin perversus “turned away, contrary, askew,” figuratively, “turned away from what is right, wrong, malicious, spiteful,” past participle of pervertere “to corrupt” .
Having a froward heart is “unnatural” or not the way God intended us to be. He did not create us with a contrary and rebellious heart. That is sin in us.
In the Bible a forward and a rebellious heart is what precedes other perversion.
“Who changed the truth of God into a lie, . . .For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature: And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.” Romans 1:25-28
A froward heart also leads to a heart devoid of love.
“Being filled with all unrighteousness. . . murder. . . haters of God . . .covenantbreakers, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful . . .” Romans 1:31
Harboring a forward heart leads to a heart that is devoid of love for God and others.
“And because iniquity shall abound, the love of many shall wax cold.” Matt 24:12
Knowing what God thinks of a froward heart, and knowing what it leads into, we ought get rid of a froward heart.
“A froward heart shall depart from me: I will not know a wicked person.” Psalm 101:4
The Lord tells us to get rid of it.
“Cast away from you all your transgressions, whereby ye have transgressed; and make you a new heart. . .” Ezekiel 18.31
“[S]erve him with a perfect heart and with a willing mind: for the Lord searcheth all hearts. . .” I Chron 28:9
“The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked: who can know it? I the Lord search the heart, I try the reins, even to give every man according to his ways, and according to the fruit of his doings.” Jeremiah 17:9-10
“The fear of the Lord is to hate evil: pride, and arrogancy, and the evil way, and the froward mouth, do I hate.” Proverbs 8:13
With the Lord Jesus’ help we can change our heart!
If we yield to Him in acknowledging His Lordship over us, and ask for His help in doing what He tells us is right, He tells us in His Word He will help us go in the way we ought to go.
“Create in me a clean heart, O God; and renew a right spirit within me.” Psalm 51:10
“Keep back thy servant also from presumptuous sins; let them not have dominion over me: then shall I be upright, and I shall be innocent from the great transgression. Let the words of my mouth, and the meditation of my heart, be acceptable in thy sight, O Lord, my strength, and my redeemer.” Psalm 19:13-14