The Bible tells us to be “speaking the truth in love” (Eph. 4.15). It doesn’t use the word” speak”. It uses “speaking”. So it seems that this isn’t a once and done thing.
“But speaking the truth in love, may grow up into him in all things, which is the head, even Christ:” Ephesians 4:15
Sometimes it seems easier to say nothing, then cause a stir. But, what if someone never got right with the Lord because we always strive to not offend someone?
Proverbs 29:5 says, “A man that flattereth his neighbour spreadeth a net for his feet.”
The Lord requires us to warn people. The Lord said in Ezekiel 3:18, “ When I say unto the wicked, Thou shalt surely die; and thou givest him not warning, nor speakest to warn the wicked from his wicked way, to save his life; the same wicked man shall die in his iniquity; but his blood will I require at thine hand.”
Leviticus 19:17 commands,
“Thou shalt not hate thy brother in thine heart: thou shalt in any wise rebuke thy neighbour, and not suffer sin upon him.”
Proverbs 27:5-6 says, “Open rebuke is better than secret love. Faithful are the wounds of a friend; but the kisses of an enemy are deceitful.”
If we don’t tell someone the truth, we don’t love them. It seems today that people are too afraid of offending someone that they won’t say anything.
But when we speak the truth it should be motivated out of love.
When we speak it should not be because we think we are better than others, or done out of a mean spirit. God hates this. Proverbs 8:13 reads, “[P]ride, and arrogancy, and the evil way, and the froward mouth, do I hate.”
Even the Pharisees spoke the truth (sometimes). Jesus said in Matthew 23:3-5, “All therefore whatsoever they bid you observe, that observe and do; but do not ye after their works: for they say, and do not. . . But all their works they do for to be seen of men . . .”
Matthew 12:46 reminds us, “ . . . That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment.” We will give account of our words, whether they were from God or not.
God bless.