A Time to be Silent

The Bible tells us that there is a time to be silent.

“To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven . . . a time to keep silence, and a time to speak;” Ecclesiastes 3:1,8

The Bible teaches us that there are times we ought to speak (Heb. 13.16).  But it also teaches us that in some instances, or circumstances we need to be silent. If we want to serve the Lord we may be called on to do both.

Did you know that there were times Jesus was silent?

“And when he was accused of the chief priests and elders, he answered nothing.” Matthew 27:12

I Peter 2:22-23 reads, “Who did no sin, neither was guile found in his mouth:

 Who, when he was reviled, reviled not again; when he suffered, he threatened not; but committed himself to him that judgeth righteously:”

As Christians it is our job to show Jesus to the world (II Cor. 5.20). And sometimes in order to show Him we also need to be quiet. Does this make sense? Maybe at first glance it might not, but the Lord actually tells us in some places to be quiet. And speaking at the wrong time could be a hindrance. It is Biblical to pray for the Lord to direct our words (Ps. 19.14; Col 4. 3-4; II Thes. 3.1). And surely if we want to be the most effective witnesses for Him we need to do what He says.

Now I remember many times teaching a Sunday school lesson the little kids would interrupt and try to say something. They would have an opinion on what was being said. They wanted their voices to be heard. There is a time to ask questions, but there is a time to be silent. Like in Sunday school if we are talking while a lesson is being taught we will surely miss something. Sometimes we need to just be quiet. We need to be quiet and listen to the Spirit of God. Sometimes also us speaking can draw the attention of others off of the Lord and onto ourselves or something else. This shouldn’t be the case if we want to glorify the Lord and win souls.

In Luke 9:35 we read “And there came a voice out of the cloud, saying, This is my beloved Son: hear him.”

Sometimes bowing down and being silent is the best witness. It shows how great a God we serve!

“ . . . Fear ye not, stand still, and see the salvation of the Lord, which he will shew to you to day . . . .The Lord shall fight for you, and ye shall hold your peace.” Exodus 14:13-14

Zecheriah 2:13 reads, “Be silent, O all flesh, before the Lord: for he is raised up out of his holy habitation.”

Speaking at the wrong time or place can mess up a picture. One of the earliest things I can remember after I was saved as a child, is that I saw sin as ugly. And I know I started to see how beautiful Jesus is. Jesus should be beautiful to every saved person. Often I have thought that Jesus is like a beautiful piece of music. Like disrupting a beautiful piece of music, saying something, or doing something out of the Lord’s will disrupt the picture of how beautiful Jesus is.

There are some specific Biblical principles when we ought to keep silent.

We ought to be silent rather than speak a lie. Psalm 101:7 reads,“ He that worketh deceit shall not dwell within my house: he that telleth lies shall not tarry in my sight.”

The Lord wants us to speak the truth. If we lie we can’t have fellowship with the Lord until we get it right with Him. And our light will never be the witness it should be until we get things right.

“This then is the message which we have heard of him, and declare unto you, that God is light, and in him is no darkness at all. If we say that we have fellowship with him, and walk in darkness, we lie, and do not the truth:” I John 1:5-6

We should be silent when what we speak isn’t out of love. Ephesians 4:15 reads “But speaking the truth in love . . .” We need to be sure our words are out of love. Sometimes truth is painful. But it doesn’t mean that it isn’t out of love. Jesus always spoke the truth in love, and he said the following, “ [E]xcept ye repent, ye shall all likewise perish” (Lk. 13.5).

We need to give the Lord room, and first place when we speak. John 3:30 reads,“He must increase, but I must decrease.” There is only so much time in a day. People only have so long of an attention span. I once was talking to someone, and I had the opportunity to relate what they said to the Bible. But as I wrote my response, I realized there was so much of “what I wanted to say” that there wasn’t much room for “what Jesus says”. I fixed this.

There are some specific places where the Lord just told us to “be quiet.”

The Lord wanted people in His Church to speak in a known tongue (or a language everyone knew). If someone was going to speak in an unknown language in the Church, they needed an interpreter. If they didn’t have an interpreter they were to keep silence in the Church.

“If any man speak in an unknown tongue, let it be by two, or at the most by three, and that by course; and let one interpret. But if there be no interpreter, let him keep silence in the church; and let him speak to himself, and to God.” I Corinthians 14:27-28

The Lord didn’t want everybody getting up and talking at once in Church.

“Let all things be done decently and in order.” (I Cor.14.40). See also I Corinthians 14:23.

There is another specific command to be silent.

Earlier I wrote that that Jesus is like a beautiful piece of music. Like disrupting a beautiful piece of music, saying something, or doing something out of the Lord’s will disrupt the picture of how beautiful Jesus is.

Later studying the Bible I noticed that both times the Apostle Paul speaks of singing songs, he speaks of submission.

“Speaking to yourselves in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody in your heart to the Lord;

Giving thanks always for all things unto God and the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ;

 Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God.

 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.” Ephesians 5:19-22

See also Colossians 3:16-18.

I Timothy 2:11-13 commands, “Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection.

But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.

For Adam was first formed, then Eve.”

If our goal is for Jesus to be seen and shown clearly, then we will have no problem with this. If that is not our goal, then we need to get right with the Lord. For a daughter of God the Lord tells us the best way to show Him is by submission and remaining silent.

These have been just a few thoughts.

God bless.

Why is Wisdom a Woman?

Why is Wisdom a Woman?

Proverbs 1:20 reads, “Wisdom crieth without; she uttereth her voice in the streets . . .”

I always wondered why wisdom is personified as a woman. I had some thoughts on this.

What is wisdom?

Psalm 111:10 reads, “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom: a good understanding have all they that do his commandments: his praise endureth for ever.”

Wisdom says,

“The fear of the Lord is to hate evil: pride, and arrogancy, and the evil way, and the froward mouth, do I hate.

Counsel is mine, and sound wisdom: I am understanding; I have strength.

By me kings reign, and princes decree justice.

By me princes rule, and nobles, even all the judges of the earth.” Proverbs 8:13-16

Psalm 119:100 tells us, “I understand more than the ancients, because I keep thy precepts.”

Psalm 25:14  says,“The secret of the Lord is with them that fear him; and he will shew them his covenant.”

Why is wisdom personified as a woman? Well,  I do know that wisdom can only be gotten by being humble, obedient and by submitting to God, which is what a godly woman does. It can be gotten no other way.

Showing Your Head

What is a characteristic of the Lord Jesus Christ?

Philippians 2:5-11 tells us,

^“ Let this mind be in you, which was also in Christ Jesus: Who, being in the form of God, thought it not robbery to be equal with God:

But made himself of no reputation, and took upon him the form of a servant, and was made in the likeness of men:

And being found in fashion as a man, he humbled himself, and became obedient unto death, even the death of the cross.

Wherefore God also hath highly exalted him, and given him a name which is above every name:

That at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, of things in heaven, and things in earth, and things under the earth;

And that every tongue should confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.” Philippians 2:5-11

Jesus Christ was humble. He was made in the likeness of men and took on the form of a servant.  And He was obedient to death.

What would be easier, calling 10,000 angels to destroy the world or being obedient even until the death of the cross? There would be no redemptive work if Jesus Christ did not submit. He could have stayed in Heaven, but instead He came to this earth and submitted Himself to the law, to authorities, and to men.

My Dad preached a message on the stones that the high priest in Israel wore. He noted that where the Bible describes Satan he has many of the stones that the high priest wore. But among those he lacked were the ones that referred to bearing burdens.  He said that is because Satan could never do what our great High Priest the Lord Jesus Christ did! He would never be able to bear our burdens! He would never go to the cross! He might want to be like God but he could never do what He did!

You can tell whose child someone is when they show their characteristics. When we submit we are showing our  head the Lord Jesus Christ. We are showing Whose sons and daughters (Deut 32.18, II. Cor. 6.18) we are.

I Corinthians 11:10 tells us, “For this cause ought the woman to have power on her head because of the angels.”

Now ladies, I ask you, who are we showing when we ignore God’s command?

“And the angels which kept not their first estate, but left their own habitation, he hath reserved in everlasting chains under darkness unto the judgment of the great day.” Jude 6

God commands us in Ephesians 5:22  “Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.”

God gave to us the ministry of submission, and gave us a job to do. And living our lives we have the opportunity of showing our Lord Jesus to the world.  Let us serve our Saviour the best we can!

“Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives;” I Peter 3:1-2

“A son honoureth his father, and a servant his master: if then I be a father, where is mine honour? and if I be a master, where is my fear? saith the Lord of hosts . . .” Malachi 1:6

Thoughts on Women and Serving the Lord

The Bible mentions a great woman. There was a woman in the Bible who had great faith, and it might be said of some that they did some great things, but there is one particular woman in the whole Bible where it is written, that she was “a great woman”.

Well, who was she, and what did she do?

“And it fell on a day, that Elisha passed to Shunem, where was a great woman; and she constrained him to eat bread. And so it was, that as oft as he passed by, he turned in thither to eat bread. And she said unto her husband, Behold now, I perceive that this is an holy man of God, which passeth by us continually. Let us make a little chamber, I pray thee, on the wall; and let us set for him there a bed, and a table, and a stool, and a candlestick: and it shall be, when he cometh to us, that he shall turn in thither. And it fell on a day, that he came thither, and he turned into the chamber, and lay there.” II Kings 4:8-11

What did this woman do?

This woman took care of the man of God. She fed him, and made sure that he had a comfortable place to stay. She made life more comfortable to him. She did what she could.

”[B]ut whosoever will be great among you, let him be your minister; And whosoever will be chief among you, let him be your servant: Even as the Son of man came not to be ministered unto, but to minister, and to give his life a ransom for many.” Matthew 20:26-28

“And the King shall answer and say unto them, Verily I say unto you, Inasmuch as ye have done it unto one of the least of these my brethren, ye have done it unto me.” Matthew 25:40

Some Thoughts on Mary and Martha

Some people only remember Martha for the bad. But in Luke chapter 10 we read that Martha was “serving” the Lord ( Luke 10:40). It appears she was serving Him a meal. In this chapter Martha wanted the Lord to tell her sister Mary to come help her. But Mary was doing the needful thing and was sitting at the feet of Jesus. Jesus responded to Martha,,”Martha, Martha, thou art careful and troubled about many things: But one thing is needful: and Mary hath chosen that good part, which shall not be taken away from her” (41-42).

Notice that Jesus didn’t tell Martha that all that she was doing was bad, but that “one thing is needful”. Other things may be good, but they can’t come in the place of spending time with the Lord.

I found it interesting that Martha was so busy “serving the Lord” that she didn’t have time to “serve” Him. How many times have we been so busy “serving the Lord” that we don’t have time to serve Him? How many times have we let other things come before our prayer life?  Have we ever been so involved in a Church function that we don’t take time to talk to the Lord? The Bible teaches us that we shouldn’t let these things keep us so busy that we don’t spend time with our Saviour. The Bible tells us that God created this day. (Ps. 118.24). And since He did, he surely made enough time for us to spend with Him.

But taking care of a house, and taking care of God’s people is serving the Lord too. We shouldn’t underestimate that. For instance in I Timothy 5:8 it is written that a man who doesn’t take care of his household is worse than an infidel. In Proverbs 31 we read that one of the things God will praise a woman for is taking care of her family. Also I Timothy 5 tells us that taking care of one’s parents (or aunts and uncles) is “good and acceptable in the sight of God” (5.4). Is this the good and acceptable will of God (Romans 12.2)? Doing something for God’s people seems like something God will always reward (See Matthew 10:41-42).

Psalm 16:2-3 tells us that serving God’s people is part of serving the Lord too. It reads, “O my soul, thou hast said unto the Lord, Thou art my Lord: my goodness extendeth not to thee; But to the saints that are in the earth, and to the excellent, in whom is all my delight.” 

“And the King shall answer and say unto them, Verily I say unto you, Inasmuch as ye have done it unto one of the least of these my brethren, ye have done it unto me.” Matthew 25:40

These have been just a few thoughts.

God bless.

Why is Wisdom a Woman?

Why is Wisdom a Woman?

Proverbs 1:20 reads, “Wisdom crieth without; she uttereth her voice in the streets . . .”

I always wondered why wisdom is personified as a woman. I had some thoughts on this.

What is wisdom?

Psalm 111:10 reads, “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom: a good understanding have all they that do his commandments: his praise endureth for ever.”

 

Wisdom says,

“The fear of the Lord is to hate evil: pride, and arrogancy, and the evil way, and the froward mouth, do I hate.

Counsel is mine, and sound wisdom: I am understanding; I have strength.

By me kings reign, and princes decree justice.

By me princes rule, and nobles, even all the judges of the earth.” Proverbs 8:13-16

Psalm 119:100 tells us, “I understand more than the ancients, because I keep thy precepts.”

Psalm 25:14  says,“The secret of the Lord is with them that fear him; and he will shew them his covenant.”

Why is wisdom personified as a woman? Well,  I do know that wisdom can only be gotten by being humble, obedient and by submitting to God, which is what a godly woman does. It can be gotten no other way.